Why your intentions don’t really matter, but outcomes do

"Ingrid's Intentionality Elixir" Comic

I’ve created a few graphics about when it’s okay to say “gay” and the one argument that keeps coming up goes something like “How can you regulate language? What’s offensive to one person is not to another.  What matters is your intentions.” Intentions don’t matter, effect does. I will elaborate on my response to that question more in... Read more »

Excuse me, sir, why are you wearing white socks?

Avoid White Socks

Are you planning on going jogging soon? Do you have an appointment with your personal trainer later? Are you filming a Hanes commercial later?  If the answer to all of these questions is no, then you have no business wearing white socks.  Let’s talk about about socks, and other common, but easily avoidable fashion faux... Read more »