An Edugraphic about Sexuality Flowchart: when it’s okay to say “that’s so gay” "That's so gay" broken down into an easy-to-follow flowchart. by Sam Killermann Sam is able to create edugraphics like this thanks to funding from 19 patrons. And we can keep this site thriving thanks to IPM’s 32 patrons. Become a Patron. Learn More. Flowchart: when it’s okay to say “that’s so gay” Reply Share For the more analytical folks, we created a handy flowchart to help make the decision “Is ‘gay’ the right word for me?” As you can tell, in most cases, the answer is no. Print, post, and share freely. Reply Share Tweet Add Your Voice