Not only would I not get married until everyone can, I kind of am starting to get appalled by anybody who would get married in this day and age. Anyone who considers themselves for equal rights, to get married right now seems very odd to me.
I mean, it’s like, if you say, if you joined a club, a country club, you know, in the 60s, where no blacks or Jews were allowed. Why would you want to join that country club? It’s already bizarre. There’s nothing wrong with just a nice commitment, maybe a nice civil ceremony.
But yeah, no, I find marriage has a very ugly mark on it right now, and I would not want to be a part of it.
The quote may not be anything new to you, but it perfectly describes my issues with marriage as it stands now. I am currently in a serious relationship, and I like the idea of making a lifelong commitment, but I don’t like the idea of drinking from a fountain that says “straights only.”
Marriage shouldn’t be an exclusive institution. But as long as it is, I can’t in good conscience support it.
Here’s my pledge as an ally: I’m not getting married until same-sex couples can receive the same privilege. I encourage all other allies to make the same commitment.
(Thanks for sharing the quote, Ryan! You’re awesome.)